If you are someone who knowingly persists in mortal sin there are three responses you can have when they see others engage in mortal sin.
1. Indifference. You just don’t care.
2. You get incredibly angry at the other. It’s a projection thing. You are really angry with yourself for how far you’ve allowed yourself to fall. So, to feel morally superior, you lash out at everyone around you that you see engaged in mortal sin.
3. You tolerate and accept other mortal sins because you feel by not condemning others’ action, maybe you’ll gain some brownie points for being nice. Also, because you want to keep engaging in your mortal sin, you feel it would be hypocritical to tell others that their actions are bad. We see this response most often with s€xual sins.
I used to fall into camp two. I was so angry with myself for how I’d allowed myself to fall away from the principles I held dear. Because of pride, I just couldn’t face truly examining myself and admitting out loud what I’d done. (Plus, I wasn’t Catholic yet and didn’t have the Sacrament of Penance to heal me.)
To make myself feel better, I started angrily correcting everyone around me. This helped me feel morally superior.
Many, today, though fall into camp three. There is some mortal sin that they want to continue engaging in and, so, because they don’t want to be called out, they tolerate and accept others’ mortal sins, even going so far as to wholeheartedly condone true evils. With this one, you’ll always condone sins that fall into the department of the sin you are committing.
I’d say there’s a big problem with indifference, too.
We must be keenly aware—KEENLY—aware that if we die with unrepentant mortal sin on our soul, we have decided H€ll is where we want to go and God, in His justice, gives us what we deserve and ask for.
We must never presume that just because we think we are a “good” person or that God “won’t be mean,” we can risk persisting in mortal sin.
The correct response is always to work to remove mortal sin from our lives and to quickly confess it if we commit it.
For some, this is going to require massive overhauls to their lives and a fair amount of suffering and pain. But, I promise you, there is no pleasure on earth that is going to outweigh an eternity of misery.
If we actively work to be free of mortal sin, Catholic Pilgrims, we must never be indifferent to it in others or encourage it. To do so, would be to wish damnation on them and I can’t imagine anything less loving.
Live the Faith boldly and travel well this Thursday.
